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Monday, October 20, 2008

Educate about "Eight"

I feel the need to post about something near and dear to my heart-- marriage. I think it is every U.S. citizen's responsibility to get as well informed as possible on issues such as proposition 8 from several independent sources not tied to any one fundraising effort or campaign that may have skewed ideas and make be either misrepresenting the facts or not telling the whole story. Allow me to share some facts with you free from my 'religious bias':

1. Not once has there been a proposal brought to a citizen vote on the question "Should gay marriage be legalized?--Yea or Nay." In both the states of Massachusetts and California, it has been a handful of people called judges who have decided this, not the public as a whole.

2. There have been a few states recently (2-3 I think) that have passed initiatives by public majority vote to affirm and clarify marriage defined as between a man and woman.

3. So far, there is no clear evidence that gay marriage is something the majority of the American public support.

4. Under current laws, gay/homosexual couples currently enjoy medical visitation rights, have no additional tax burdens compared to married heterosexual couples, and are not prohibited from being in each other's wills or named on estates.

So my question to you is "What need is there for legal recognition/allowance of gay marriage?" I can list a host of reasons why I think it is an issue which many people could see as religiously biased and morally-skewed. But, in order to accomplish my original goal of this post to provide "unbiased" information about Proposition 8 and it's significance.

PLEASE ENCOURAGE FRIENDS OF YOURS IN CALIFORNIA TO VOTE ON THIS ISSUE so we can see what the majority of citizens feels should be public policy.

2 comments:

Katelyn said...: Thank you for this post!; October 20, 2008 at 8:23 PM
Grandma Arnold said...: You tell them Son!!!; October 21, 2008 at 11:35 PM

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Spiritual Thought

The Lord’s prophets have always called for UNITY. There are principles we are following as a people which are leading to greater unity.

One of those principles is revelation. Revelation is the only way we can know how to follow the will of the Lord together. It requires light from above.

A second principle to guide our progress to become one is to be humble. Pride is the great enemy of unity. You have seen and felt its terrible effects. Just days ago I watched as two people—good people—began with a mild disagreement. It started as a discussion of what was true but became a contest about who was right. Voices become gradually louder. Faces became a little more flushed. Instead of talking about the issue, people began talking about themselves, giving evidence why their view, given their great ability and background, was more likely to be right.

Happily I am seeing more and more skillful peacemakers who calm troubled waters before harm is done. You could be one of those peacemakers, whether you are in the conflict or an observer. One way I have seen it done is to search for anything on which we agree. The great peacemaker, the restorer of unity, is the one who finds a way to help people see the truth they share. That truth they share is always greater and more important to them than their differences. That same principle applies as we build unity with people who are from vastly different backgrounds. The children of God have more in common than they have differences. And even the differences can be seen as an opportunity. God will help us see a difference in someone else not as a source of irritation but as a contribution. The Lord can help you see and value what another person brings which you lack.

That leads to another principle of unity. It is to speak well of each other. Think of the last time you were asked what you thought about how someone else was doing in your family or in the Church. For instance, suppose someone asks you what you think of the new bishop. As we get better and better at forging unity, we will think of a scripture when we hear that question: “And now, my brethren, seeing that ye know the light by which ye may judge, which light is the light of Christ, see that ye do not judge wrongfully; for with that same judgment which ye judge ye shall also be judged.” Realizing that you see others in an imperfect light will make you likely to be a little more generous in what you say. In addition to that scripture, you might remember your mother saying ”If you can’t say anything good about a person, don’t say anything at all.”

That will help you look for what is best in the bishop’s performance and character. The Savior, as your loving judge, will surely do that as He judges your performance and mine. The scripture and what you heard from your mother may well lead you to describe what is best in the bishop’s performance and his good intent. I can promise you a feeling of peace and joy when you speak generously of others in the Light of Christ. You will feel, for instance, unity with that bishop and with the person who asked your opinion, not because the bishop is perfect or because the person asking you shares your generous evaluation. It will be because the Lord will let you feel His appreciation for choosing to step away from the possibility of sowing seeds of disunity.
-President Henry B. Eyring, Oct 2008 General Conference

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